Doing what you love is tricky. On one hand, you’re working on something you’ve always dreamed of. There are very few pursuits higher than that. I don’t know what the statistics are, but the people in the world doing what they love seem to be very few in number.
On the other hand, you’ve turned love into work. And there are going to be times when the love just isn’t there.
In my former life as a guide, I got to spend long days out in the world, exploring beautiful places with interesting people. But in reality, not every day was paradise. Sometimes the weather was terrible, or the people were boring, or I was mad at my dog for getting in the trash.
Things would go bad for a while. Not “terrible” bad- it’s a relative term. What I mean is, they just didn’t go as well as they could have. I always felt as if, on those days, people weren’t getting their time’s worth. On vacation. And I can’t think of much that’s more valuable than that.
But there was an obligation to be amazing. I was doing what I loved. Living the dream. In a way, my guests were there to be a part of that as much as they were to see an incredible place.
I had a strategy for days like that. And I can honestly say that, every time, using just a few well thought out tips saved the day, for me and my guests. Here’s what I did…
Plan
Just saying the word “strategy” insinuates that there was a plan. I never knew for sure which days were going to be bad. And they were very few and far between. But when they came, I was ready.
A plan involves having some go-to material. For me, these were stories that I had crafted relentlessly, over years. I could tell them, convincingly, in my sleep. What got you involved in the field, your product’s functions, the greatest act of customer service you can think of, and on and on.
Think about what connects those examples: they’re superlative. They are (or should be) things that really matter to you. The reason they matter is because they have a universal action within them. Risk. Excitement. Humor. There needs to be something in the story that everyone can relate to.
Get three ideas you like, and get to work.
Practice
You’ll never be able to tell a great story without practice. I think the best way to do that is experience. Your story needs some miles. You can get miles by creating a presentation, writing the story out, or telling it to your 6 month old ad infinitum.
A lot of times at conferences, I take notes knowing I will never look at them again. Just the act of recording something helps me to remember the important parts. I’ve practiced that act, so I know what parts I’ll take away. Would you be able to remember, without looking, the notes you took from the last presenter you watched? What about the story from E.T.?
Think about how much practice it took to finally tell the story of E.T. (almost 30 years ago!) I believe it when people say that they’re not natural storytellers. It’s learned.
Commit
Even when your day is lousy, be ready to commit to your three stories. No matter what happens with your day, leave it with those stories. Tell them to a group. Write them in a blog. Send a memo. Commit to telling them.
What you’re doing is leaving your “A material”. It doesn’t mean you’re not being genuine. On the contrary, you’re caring enough about the person you’re talking to, or the group you’re presenting to, to give them this story of yours.
If you commit to the story, there’s no way you fail. Here’s why:
We know from planning that our story has universal actions. If you’re committed, you’ll experience those actions as you tell the story. So you are excited, inspired, etc. as you tell your story.
We know from practice that we can tell the story convincingly. If you’re committed, you can “go there” anytime, no matter what kind of day you’re having, and, through your story, give something back.
Commitment invests a resource into your story: you. The people that are listening to you deserve a good story. What’s yours?